Hi, I'm Roman, I help those who seek clarity and want to live life from a true place of conscious choice. My purpose is to reveal new horizons and show that you can always change things – even when you think you can't.
- Are you stuck? - Do you feel like you haven't truly achieved your full potential? - Are you constantly ruminating about life setbacks?
We all yearn for lives of richness, satisfaction and fulfilment but doubts and fears often come into our minds.
You won't learn these skills at school: how to live a value-lead life; how to best deal with fears, doubts and insecurities; how to choose how you respond to anything; how to take care of your mind body and spirit; how we all have a purpose – and what that is.
That where coaching comes into the picture. And I'm here to help.
Don't put off your life. Play big. Dreams, not just goals.
I originally connected with Roman at a time when I was somewhat adrift, caught up in the challenges of each day and reacting to events as they occurred. Roman provided an important thought partner that helped me to explore the hidden assumptions I was operating with and identify the self critic that was shaping my behaviour.
From there we have been able to construct a mental image that I am able to bring within myself and unlock a new mental stance for engaging the workplace. This has enabled me to bring a different perspective to my engagements and take up the role that I have long been seeking for myself.
Michael
Senior manager at MNC (Melbourne, Australia)
I should have engaged Roman earlier!
Jeremy
Executive at MNC (Singapore)
Before I started working with Roman, I was always doubting myself in terms of my capabilities. Roman affirmed the qualities in me throughout my journey with him. Being a little different from how my peers are, he taught me not to underestimate the qualities/abilities he sees in me as these qualities are also valuable in the real world. Furthermore, he is always there to give me a little push whenever I am hesitant and stay stagnant for too long. From the start of my sessions with Roman up till now, I feel a positive change in me. Very blessed to meet someone who offers a listening ear and nudging you to become a better someone. Thank you Roman!
Sherlyn
consultant in one of the Big4 firms (Singapore)
В коучинг меня привел по большей части синдром самозванца, неуверенность в себе и сложность в принятии решений, как рабочих, так и личных. Рома научил меня осознавать моменты, когда мои мысли занимает внутренний саботер, принимать свои победы, хоть и небольшие, справляться с тревожностью, связанной с рабочими моментами. Но самое главное это то, что каждая сессия для меня завершалась определенными инсайтами о себе и давала пищу для дальнейших размышлений. Буквально за три месяца работы я увидела огромный результат и почувствовала, как поменялось мое мировосприятие, что отразилось на работе и личных отношениях. Сейчас я уверенно себя чувствую в команде, не боюсь выражать свои мысли и идеи, перестала тревожиться по поводу новых проектов, которые мне предстоит сделать. Я уверенно иду к тому, чтобы перестать воспринимать себя через мнение других людей. Рома очень тонко чувствует человека, что очень импонирует и располагает. Я невероятно благодарна за то, что смог мне помочь, направить мысли в нужное русло, понять себя!
Ирина
Lead designer and UX specialist (Kyiv, Ukraine)
На мой взгляд, основная задача коучинга, найти ответы на вопросы. Но, что ещё важнее, коучинг помогает задать правильные вопросы. Мы с Романом работали над рядом непростых задач из разных аспектов моей жизни. Роман поддерживал меня на пути вглубь моего сознания, стимулировал осознанность и челленджил заданиями. Он умело сформировал особый подход в работе со мной и поддерживал меня на этапах, когда было особенно сложно. Особенно мне запомнилась работа с блоками на радость. Оказалось, что тема сильно завязана с замедлением процесса изменений по карьере. Неочевидность связи меня поразила и вдохновила. Могу отметить, что с этими (и другими) аспектами на сегодня всё отлично! Результаты, которых мы достигли, впечатляют, но что самое важное, в процессе были заложены принципы, которые поддерживают меня и по окончании нашего сотрудничества. Я считаю, что Роман - прекрасный коуч и соратник на пути к свершениям. С удовольствием вернусь к работе с ним в будущем!
Вера
Product Owner (Dnipro, Ukraine)
Why coaching works
The most intelligent people need the most help thinking about their thinking.
Coaching is valuable because none of us transform our thinking on our own. Humans are masters at rationalising hastily made choices no matter how logical we think we are. We're also exceptional at blaming whomever or whatever we can when those choices turn out badly.
To stop adverse thinking patterns, someone outside our head needs to disrupt our thinking by reflecting our thoughts back to us and asking questions that prompt us to wonder why we think the way we do.
Smart people are the best rationalisers. They believe their reasoning wholeheartedly and will protect their opinions as solid facts. Telling them to change is a waste of time. Using strong reflections and questions is the only way to get smart people to question their thoughts.
My approach
I strive to create a safe space for the conversation to unfold by caring and feeling compassionately curious. Provide support and encouragement, facilitate the discovery and pursuit of your dreams and passions, that's what I do.
principles I rely on
Co-Active Coaching
I was trained to be a coach by the Co-Active Training Institute, the most highly regarded coach training school in the world.
Evoke Transformation
Coaching is more than just sorting out problems or tackling challenges you face, it's holding a vision and building capacity to deal with anything.
Love the client!
You are already great and it's my job to provide support to enhance the skills, resources and creativity you already have to achieve results.
You don't need to be "fixed", nobody is broken.
how it works
Discovery
We'll have a complimentary 30-minute conversation to discuss your goals, I'll explain how I work and suggest how many sessions you'll likely need to achieve your goals.
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Off you go!
We start with an initial 6 x 1-hour sessions, fortnightly over the course of 3 months - you can always add more should you need them.
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On the journey
Then we coach 1-1, via Zoom. Any permanent, meaningful change requires increased self-awareness plus consistent action. I'll be your partner in thinking, clarifying and reflecting on your topic.
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Celebrate the results
A connection to your positive vision of yourself or an inspiring dream or goal you've long held. You draw energy from the visions and dreams, and that same energy sustains your efforts to change, even through difficult times.
This results in establishing and taking action towards achieving goals, becoming more self-reliant, owning of the value you bring, clarity and awareness in your life.
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Get in touch
I'm based in Singapore and I serve my clients all over the world!
Roman Lobus E-mail: roman.lobus@gmail.com Languages: English, Ukrainian and Russian
Book a discovery call
Try a free 30-min coaching session to find out if we're a good fit and if we are, what our next steps should be to get you where you want to be